What people lie to themselves about and what they really want

This applies to all people, regardless of profession Well tell me, what have you really always wanted to do? Surely something crossed your mind. Now try to explain to yourself, why didn't you do it. Maybe something like: “With poker money I wanted to start a business selling useful gadgets., but I don’t know where to start ”? Yes, these are just excuses, you're just kidding yourself! If you really wanted to open this store, then nothing would stop you. If a person has a real desire to sell gadgets, he will not complain for months “how can I start work”. He will read, how to do it, study laws, climb the forums, ask questions to other owners, etc.. But we don't, so we don't really want it. In general, it is worth distinguishing between two different concepts of “want”: A wish, action-oriented (I want to play a two-hour session on PokerStars before lunch) General desire (I want to live happily ever after) There is a terrible confusion in these concepts. Well here's an example. I looked at the new Rossamakh and saw, that Hugh Jackman has a perfectly pumped torso. И я думаю “хочу такое тело”, но это имеет общее значение. Вот Джеман тоже думал “хочу такое тело”, но у него это желание было направленно на действие, for daily workouts, diets, etc. Another example. Think …

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