author: Jack Canfield
Translation and Voice acting: Dmitry Balezin
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Overcoming failure and finding success begins with acceptance 100% responsibility for your life. You must stop using excuses and make yourself a victim of something.. You must throw away all the reasons, why can't you succeed or haven't succeeded so far.
I know, what is this call, but if you want to move forward, you must take full responsibility for everything, what's going on in your life.
When we fail, we deviate from the goal, making excuses and blaming others. We give energy to personal responsibility. You can change it.
If something doesn't work out, you may ask yourself: “How did I create a situation like this?? What did I say or did not say? How I got another person to behave this way?»
Maybe, you think, that you cannot control the actions of other people. And you are right. You can't do it. but, we play a role in everything, what's happening.
For example, you hear, that people say something unpleasant about you, maybe, it's not even true. But you should consider, and you will see your contribution to this. Maybe, you have criticized them in the past, not having all the information. Maybe, they heard, how did you criticize others.
Our actions affect other people in the most incredible ways.
Eventually, you should ask yourself a really "strong question": “What will I do differently next time?, to get the desired result?" This is great, when you know, what your actions led to complications. But this knowledge is useless, if you don't use it. Take advantage of it. Let him move you forward.
