Woman — it is god.
No matter how men puff up and pretend to be autocrats — we are just performers, bearers of physical strength, which we direct so, как велено нашими половинками, quarters or eighths (depending on the number of girlfriends).
Well really, friends!
Man — it's raw clay. And the Woman forms us even in the process of gestation. Our mother begins to form the character of her son even at conception. Desired son or not. Positive emotions during pregnancy or negative. Way of thinking, образ жизни + genetics.
All in all, I am firmly convinced, that a man without a woman — primitive creature, endowed with only strength, elementary logic, basic instincts. And the woman, with which a man connects life (rather, the woman herself makes a choice — he is mine!) begins to form under her thin, imperceptible influence.
My conclusions are confirmed by the experience and opinions of other people.. You can agree, you may disagree — nothing will change from this. Woman — this is our god. Our king and our destiny.
I have a friend Zhenya. Great guy, 40 years. Перспективный, ambitious, gallant, punctual, careful. Интересный. We made friends with him for years 10 back. I took an example from him in many ways., my father comes first, of course. Not literally in everything, but in many things I was guided by him.
But what happened to Zhenya? They moved as a family to Minsk. Marina — his wife and two girls. Карьерный рост, the apartment was built… Live — I don't want to. But something broke in their relationship. Although they could not stand dirty linen in public and this is in vain, I think. They started to cook in their porridge. Nevertheless, it turned out, that Zhenya found another woman. She is rich, a little older, at position, властна. All in all, he left the family.
Почему так случилось?
The reasons are different and I see it like this from my bell tower. Marinka relaxed when moving. She became depressed. Was at home, ambitions did not realize, dissolved in her husband and family. Mortal anguish! I can understand her condition. Didn't go to work — some complexes got in the way, self-doubt or something. AND, certainly, Zhenya felt, that he became useless in his armor.
Here it is necessary to clarify, that the armor was put on him just at the time by Marinka. Zhenya's mother did not love her son. And he grew up without an inner core. I say so because, that I see now a completely different Zhenya. They are two different people. Right now he is real, such, how his mother created — uncertain, money-loving, эгоистичный, driven, агрессивный.
Why are all these 20 years of life with Marinka he was D'Artanyan? Because she saw him like this and her feminine power formed this image from raw clay, which held on for a very long time until then, bye as I said, her strength has not evaporated. And then there was another, who picked up this little man at the expense of her potential. She creates him now in her own way and he is unable to cope with her influence..
Maybe, he is uncomfortable, he does not understand, what happens to him. He is thrown here and there and is out of control of his heart.. Because any man — just a tool in the hands of a WOMAN. And me and you. They are, sometimes, do not realize their strength, sometimes they use it unconsciously. But it is always the woman who leads, and the man — slave.
I have been going to write this post for a long time, Yes, I put it off. А тут попалась еще интересная quote — I will include it in the article:
Say, if a man is disrespectful to his woman, then luck turns away from him. Why??
Women's creative thinking is many times stronger than men's, therefore, her ability to influence fate is very high, as on your own destiny, and on the fate of her husband..
When a woman experiences pleasure and happiness from a relationship, her man begins to lead, all doors open before him and luck begins to follow him on his heels. Because in her happy and satisfied inner state, by the power of her creative thinking, a woman blesses her husband for success and attracts favorable events into his life.. Through a woman, either a stream of goodness rushes to a man, good luck and prosperity, or a stream of destructive force..
The woman is closely related to the subtle spheres., the world of energies, so her thoughts, her inner emotional state, forming the physical plane, implemented faster. If the wife is not satisfied with family life, not happy with my husband, it will be difficult for him to realize himself, it is difficult to succeed..
Why wise men do not spare money on gifts to their women, why seek to protect them from any, unpleasant work and surround only with pleasant impressions? They know, that a satisfied woman is a source of well-being and happiness for the whole family.
Need to say, that Zhenya has a difficult period ahead of him. Think, if he does not return to Marinka — his life is doomed. He has already made the biggest mistake of his life., but can still fix a lot. His girls were left without their ideal dad., without its support. How it will affect their lives? And then the grandchildren will appear — will they accept the dad who betrayed them? And who will need it «Over there», where there were already two or three official husbands before him?
However, I have no right to interfere directly with this process, except that I wrote a post on the blog, perhaps other Zhenya and Marinka will read it and even agree with me in some way and will not allow this in their Fate.
Zhenya's car broke down… Health was not so hot… All for the same reason — hold on to that, which gives you strength, what gives you energy, what love gives.
Love your women. Give them joy, because for each positive charge you will receive tenfold heat in return, love and affection…
-Aunt Galya, Ask, — and your Vova was once an alcoholic, when did you meet?
-Конечно нет, Dimka!
-That is, it was with you that he drank himself?
Laughs…
Morality:
1. Women — realize your strength! You see the man of your dreams and you shape him based on your preferences.. The same person can make both a hero and a villain. All in your hands.
2. Understand what is your advantage over your rivals? There is not a single woman, which would be without its individual skill — charm, beauty, mother's heart, affection, understanding, listening skills, predatory gaze, color of the skin, smell, gaiety, etc.. You have something, what others do not have. Bet on it! Do not fight rivals on their field. Play your game.
2. Keep the man with your strength. Do not become limp, do not fall into depression — because he will be picked up and taken away, while you are prostrated. For some reason, even the most bald man is in demand by your rivals.. well, say, lay brick, remove manure or go for milk.
3. If a man is not like that, как вам хочется — paying attention first of all to yourself and your attitude towards him. And then change this attitude and the man will change after.
4. Men, shove your pride up your ass! We — just animals, who serve their queens and princesses. They lead us into battle, heal our wounds and fight bloody battles. They are — real magicians and sorceresses. We can never reach their level.
5. Your woman — the source of your strength and happiness. You will run between your girlfriends — you will be devastated and in the end not needed by any. You are used and abandoned, how did you use and throw.
6. Think, what will be better with the other / the other — illusion. If you met, if you live together, giving birth to children — then this is not an accident. You will seek your happiness outside of marriage. — get the same result, which will become chronic.
7. Men — pretty primitive creatures. They are easy to manage. You just need to understand some of the mechanisms, who run his cave . Study and observe. You will chop in the forehead — nothing will work — we will never give in to the illusion of our leadership. But you understand that, that this is exactly an illusion. Leave her to the man and come in from the flanks.
Женя! You, as a person impenetrable and inflexible, can spend years on that, to prove that I was right and in the end to cruelly regret my choice. Or you can just remember those 20 years, who were the happiest in your life. Remember your girls, which you left without support. That woman won't be lost, that's what the pike is in the river, so that the crucian does not doze.
So wake up, you are such an asshole!
God bless you, at least until the next blog update
